The SECRET to Better Parenting | Ask THIS Instead!

Ever feel like you’re chasing all the “right” parenting answers but still missing peace? Episode 18. 

In this episode, inspired by Elon Musk’s favorite story of the Ultimate Question (and the answer “42”), we explore how asking better questions can completely shift your homeschool and parenting mindset.

Because sometimes the truth that changes everything isn’t a new answer—it’s a new way of asking.

18 Parenting Truth, Elon Musk, 42
18 Parenting Truth, Elon Musk, 42

The SECRET to Better Parenting | Ask THIS Instead!

Inside this episode, you’ll discover how to:

The Ultimate Question Lesson: From The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, we learn that even the “right” answer means nothing if we’re asking the wrong question — a truth that mirrors parenting.

Clarity Over Perfection: Like Elon Musk’s obsession with meaning, moms often chase perfect answers instead of pausing to define what truly matters in their family.

Presence, Not Pressure: The better question isn’t “Am I doing enough?” but “Am I being present?” — a small mindset shift that changes how we parent every day.

Reframing Creates Connection: Asking different questions in homeschooling or motherhood can turn stress into curiosity, helping you see your child with fresh eyes.

The Parenting TRUTH: Peace and purpose don’t come from knowing it all — they come from staying curious, asking better questions, and trusting your own rhythm.

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The Question Elon Musk Couldn’t Stop Asking …

Elon’s always been obsessed with big existential questions —

What’s the meaning of life? Why are we here? What’s our purpose?

And one of his favorite books, a supercomputer named Deep Thought, was built for one mission:

To give humanity the ultimate answer to life, the universe, and everything.

Was the computer capable of calculating the answer?

Oh yes, it was.

Did it take 7,500,000 years? Oh yes, it did.

But here’s the thing — you don’t need to wait that long.

Because the real story isn’t about the answer at all.

It’s about the question they asked.

And maybe that’s true for us, too — in parenting, in life, in how we measure success.

So I’m spilling the beans on this one — yes, I will tell you the answer …

But it is more about the shift that changes everything —

Tune in while you walk, fold laundry, or drive to pick up.
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One of Elon Musk’s favorite books isn’t about rockets or Mars …

That’s us: Adrian and I –happily reading aloud the Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy.

With all the right questions,
— Anya


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